Originally Posted by Dennis
There is a happy medium, you just need to find it. The key is to not caring (or pretending to) if she hates you for a bit. Frequently. She'll come back to you - the mistake men often make, is apologetically going back to the woman because they can't stand "losing the friendship". Give me a break.
The irony here is that men have been emasculated - BY women - which has negatively affected our attractiveness to them. Go figure. THEY are the ones who wanted us to express our feelings and watch these stupid movies with them and not get in a fight with some random guy and write her some poetry. THEY created the friendzone.
If you lack confidence with girls Dennis, it's because they keep moving the fucking fences on us guys. Always changing the questions. So, no, it's not surprising to lack confidence when you're constantly reminded that you don't know where you stand.
And don't buy into that "Oh if I'm just a nice guy and hang in there long enough, surely she'll one day see me as the one for her" shite either - you'll be the one for her alright - the one to go rent her a dvd, drive her somewhere or buying her tampons. And that's the nearest you'll ever get to that vag.