Originally Posted by Asherdelampyr
Choosing not to debate with a girl doesn't mean you won't tell her what you feel about a topic. I just won't argue my point towards her. For example a girl I currently like is super christian so she doesn't like the idea of gay marriage. I am totally ok with gay marriage and if anything one might call me super for the acceptance of other people... Does she know that I'm for it, of course! Do I try to argue it with her, no. If she wants to rant on about how terrible it is I will just listen and she will quickly realize I don't agree with her and move on. Most of my friends and people I keep close around know I love to argue... In fact my closest friends are people I was on a debate team with, so they know I can argue my points. I just find no benefit in debating a topic with a girl when she obviously isn't going to agree with me. She's a christian who believes everything her church tells her to be true... I'm never going to prove to her that gays have the right to marry one another so why push the issue on her?