I'm just using the wording he used DRG, since any deviation seems to just cause further confusion. And yes, I agree with you - "nice" has it's time and place. I'm just saying that his version of "nice" is not being "nice" to himself. And what makes me angrier about it - and you put it perfectly when you used the term "doormat" - is that he is ruining these girls' sense of expectation. They going to go ahead and think there are plenty of guys out there with all the qualities Dennis offers, plus the one he doesn't - appeal.
Look at the pic in his sig - look at that girl sitting on that fucking guy! And I bet Dennis doesn't see much wrong with that. "He's just being nice!" No, he's being sat on! What girl can respect that? What guy can respect himself after that?
And Den Den, remember this little fact - girls - all girls - will know if you have any lack of self respect or doubt about your own personality. They can smell it on you, the scent of doubt and uncertainty that mixes together into that sickly sweet aroma of failure.
When did eating a breath mint turn into letting girls sit on you?