Originally Posted by Dennis
Attraction is individual. I don't really find 600lb women attractive but that doesn't mean I'm shallow. If you look like Gollum and are insistent that the only women for you are Pamela Anderson types, you expectations are screwed up - but it still doesn't make you shallow.
I think being shallow is the inability to acknowledge what others might see as beauty. The attitude that, if you can't see it, it doesn't exist.
EDIT: Not being interested in looking for the beauty in others. If you believe that it's only surface beauty that matters.