Originally Posted by AWrestlingGod
I'm currently in a relationship with a women who had two children when we met, so I understand how intimidating it can be to be with someone who already has a family. You need to understand that no matter how close you two become the kid will always come first and its not something you should even try to get around. But if the relationship works it is so worth the effort and you will come to see the kid as yoru own I promise that, we've been together for just about 7 years and both her daughters see me as their father. SO really you just need to ask yourself if your ready for that kind of commitment.
As far as her being raped... All I can say is be careful, don't try and push the relationship to fast but at the same time don't try and treat her like she'd fragile. People respond to trama like that differently and you just need to be understanding of that fact.
But you sound like you really care about this girl so I don't see any reason you shouldn't give the relationship a try