Originally Posted by Dennis
The thing is......how are you being a good friend if you won't help her see how erroneous her behaviour actually is? Your refusal to see it notwithstanding, I believe there was at least a half dozen people here that told you as much - what does that tell you? With the weight of opinion behind the argument that anyone who'd do that is, well, a bitch? It's one thing for her to complain - completely another for you to pop a breath mint to placate her whim - it's a completely inexcusable thing for her not to go, "Hey don't worry about doing that" upon discovering what you were doing to please her. Which equals a totally, utterly, completely self obsessed, self centered, unempathetic B-I-T-C-H.
Have you ever drank orange juice after brushing your teeth? That's somewhat akin to how beer would taste after breath mints. Why would you do that to yourself?