Personally, I told TJB this, and I'll say it here, I think everything is going great here, and while there may have been some disarray before if there was any, EWNCW is still in my opinion, the top e-fed. So I'm not sure why he sent out that message, I think he was trying to figure out how people thought of him personally when it comes to how the shows he has helped in and how they have been and his ability as a creative member.
I had no problem giving my opinion. I can finally say (and not bragging) that I am one of the veterans here and are one of the few who has been here for awhile, like TDA, Chunky, Tommy, etc. This place is running smoothly in my opinion and I've seen this fed operate for awhile. Do I agree that what TJB did was right? No. But can I see where he is coming from in wanting to know? Yes. So, that is what I think.
In regards to ICing, I have always tried to do my best when it comes to it because I feel it's a big part of being an e-fedder. Promos are definitely way more important, along with other things like being active (to an extent) along with being involved, getting promos in on time, and giving feedback (which I know personally I've been slacking in). So from what you've seen (over on IWA in the past few days or during the feud I had with K2), I try to even make promos out of it. But I unfortunately am not on everyday, so I can't always be able to IC, but I do think it's a big part.
But that's just what I think overall!