The honeymoon period to a relationship can cause confusion later on. See, at first you're all very gung-ho, with the X's and the texting and the calling and the cuddling (etc). All these things wane after a time, in differing degrees at differing rates of decline. If it's "meant to be"*, you two will find a happy medium. My bet is she wants you to ask what's wrong. That's girls for ya - they have find it next to impossible to come out and tell you a thing. Instead you have to employ your non-existent psychic ability to guess at what's wrong. But it doesn't end there - NO! Because not even god can help you if you're wrong more than, oh let's say, 3 times (it varies).
Just ask what's wrong. Keep asking until she tells you. Don't be drawn into her games!
*I only use this expression out of convenience. I don't believe in 'meant to be'. I believe in 'can put up with', 'willing to settle', 'killing time until death', 'as good as it gets' and 'that'll do pig. That'll do.' :rolleyes:
Right, she texted:
"seriously..theres naink wrong..i'm just really ill.."
She's likely on the rag mate. Leave it be. Don't come across as too in need of validation. You'll be surprised how completely nothing wrong there is tomorrow :D
You can thank me for my contradictory advice later on if you want :rolleyes: